um…dunno how to say this.

When my life has been chaotic and full of downs…instead of ups…folks seem much more comfortable.

I have a person who is in my life that seems quite envious of one aspect of my life and gets a tad testy and inappropraitely judgemental of this aspect of my life.

I wish this person would check themselves and realize the what’s and why’s of this action.

I am getting close to the point where I am going to lay it all out on the table and that’s gonna hurt.

6 Comments on Something I Never Said Out Loud

  1. disneyphile says:

    Oy!! Need me to smack someone for ya?

  2. Well, first off, I’m sorry for how this is obviously making you feel. Unfortunately, even the best of friends need a reality check sometimes. Just remember, if they’re not prepared to hear your point of view, maybe they’re not as good a friend as you thought. Of course, they may surprise you, friends often do.

    Wishing you well.

    Dan, who has given up roof climbing.

    • B.E.M. says:

      This person will most likely never read this commnet…so…

      Thanks for your sentiments.

      Yah…they are a very good friend and I can always be very open with them about things and vs./vs. but there are some self esteem issues there and….

      gah…I guess I need to vent about this to someone…but…one of the parties involved is on my friends list and this is probably too private. *sigh*

      bottom line is…I need to talk to her about what this envy is doing to me and whether she can handle it or not is up to her…not my responsibility.

      hey…thanks for taking the time to comment.

      • Hey, that’s what friends are for, right? I’m a very “new” friend, but if you ever feel the need to talk to a “mostly” stranger, feel free to IM when I’m online. (ID’s on my user info page.) Sometimes venting to someone with no preconceived notions about you or your life helps.

        And hey, if nothing else, congrats to you for having something, whatever it may be, which others are envious of. Go you, that’s what says.

        Dan

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